Tomorrow my twins will turn three years old. As the months since they were born are starting to roll in to years, I’m feeling more removed from our surrogacy experience. Life is moving on, and it’s only natural for me to feel reflective at this time of year. It’s felt good to share our journey and I am still actively following the progress of surrogacy in the UK and around the world.
Surrogacy seems to have become very normalised within the world of celebrity, and there have been many recent surro-birth announcements in the US, joining such luminaries as Sarah Jessica Parker, Robert DeNiro and Ricky Martin. Elton John and David Furnish had their second son in January 2013, Giuliana Rancic had her son in August 2012 and is reportedly trying for her second surrogate child, and let’s not forget Caprice who gave birth herself within weeks of welcoming her surrogate-born baby in August 2013.
Strangely, although there was much hype in the press around the time of our twin daughters’ birth, more recently surrogacy has become a relatively quiet topic. Although some progress has been made to regulate surrogacy and create a fairer legal process, mostly change in the last few years has been minimal. Continue reading “Surrogacy, Three Years On” »
We were asked to take part in this surrogacy article in the Daily Mail…but declined when we realised that its primary focus was on how much money people paid to become parents…when it comes to surrogacy, money is a very personal thing and reading the piece, I’m happy we stayed more private….
Doctors in the UK think that they may be only two years away from being able to perform a womb transplant, which may be preferred to surrogacy or adoption. Whilst being a medical miracle on one hand, judging by the comments left on the Daily Mail website, this surgery is not a popular idea to everyone. And as someone who has had more cause than most to ruminate on this very matter, I must admit that reading about it today has made me feel just the slightest bit queasy.Continue reading “Womb Transplant – Would You?” »
The debate continues in the UK…should the same maternity rights be awarded to women who become mothers through surrogacy as for women who become mothers naturally or through adoption? Well, I for one can’t think of a single reason why on earth not. Can you?
Elton John did it. So did Nicole Kidman and Sarah Jessica Parker. Ricky Martin did it ages ago, and Elizabeth Banks has just done it. Even Robert De Niro did it – twice. As for Beyoncé, did she or didn’t she?
Definitely some winds of change taking place on surrogacy in the UK. Finally someone has put their head above the parapet and demanded equal rights as a new mother to maternity leave. A Newcastle Employment tribunal has referred the case to the European Court of Justice in order to consider whether a mother through surrogacy has a right to paid maternity leave to bond with her baby, establish breast-feeding and develop her family life. The claimant feels that the law should encompass new mothers and not just gestational mothers, and given that she looked after the baby from an hour old and breast-fed for three months, many would think it was hard to disagree. Continue reading “Surrogacy Maternity Leave Tribunal” »
In summary, a British couple paid Indian surrogates to give birth to their children and have just been granted parental orders in the British High Court.
Once in a while these stories appear in the national press, but interestingly parental orders are issued to UK parents of international surrogate babies much more often than is reported. At our first hearing in the High Court we were one of three couples appearing that day requesting parental orders!
However, this is the first time I am aware of where a surrogacy arrangement in India has been publicly granted a parental order. The Judge, in this case Sir Nicholas Wall, has to feel confident that the amount paid would not ’overbear the will of the surrogate’, and this can be more questionable in India due to the low average earnings.
Nonetheless, parental orders have been duly granted and above all, the welfare of the children was again considered paramount in an echo of similar cases where Justice Hedley has published similar outcomes. All good news for British couples looking in to international surrogacy to overcome infertility.