Tomorrow my twins will turn three years old. As the months since they were born are starting to roll in to years, I’m feeling more removed from our surrogacy experience. Life is moving on, and it’s only natural for me to feel reflective at this time of year. It’s felt good to share our journey and I am still actively following the progress of surrogacy in the UK and around the world.
Surrogacy seems to have become very normalised within the world of celebrity, and there have been many recent surro-birth announcements in the US, joining such luminaries as Sarah Jessica Parker, Robert DeNiro and Ricky Martin. Elton John and David Furnish had their second son in January 2013, Giuliana Rancic had her son in August 2012 and is reportedly trying for her second surrogate child, and let’s not forget Caprice who gave birth herself within weeks of welcoming her surrogate-born baby in August 2013.
Strangely, although there was much hype in the press around the time of our twin daughters’ birth, more recently surrogacy has become a relatively quiet topic. Although some progress has been made to regulate surrogacy and create a fairer legal process, mostly change in the last few years has been minimal. Continue reading “Surrogacy, Three Years On” »
Doctors in the UK think that they may be only two years away from being able to perform a womb transplant, which may be preferred to surrogacy or adoption. Whilst being a medical miracle on one hand, judging by the comments left on the Daily Mail website, this surgery is not a popular idea to everyone. And as someone who has had more cause than most to ruminate on this very matter, I must admit that reading about it today has made me feel just the slightest bit queasy.Continue reading “Womb Transplant – Would You?” »
Feeling Happy! Outside the UK High Court after being granted our Parental Order
We are feeling so happy as today we became our children’s parents. Sounds kind of strange, but until today my biological children, our little twins, were not considered legally our children because they were born with the help of a gestational surrogate. British law recognises the surrogate mother as the legal mother, and if she is married or co-habiting, her husband or partner as the legal father. No matter that we are the biological parents, or that when they were born in the USA we were issued US birth certificates for our babies which clearly name us as the only parents. Continue reading “Legal Parents! Our Surrogacy UK Parental Order Granted” »
Becoming infertile at 29 years old, I worried that I’d never complete my family. I felt very alienated from my peers, all seemingly pregnant one after another. But here I am on my 37th birthday with the family I’ve always dreamed of. It’s been a long road, but I feel back on track and immensely proud of us all.
Surrogacy. Some people look at you strangely, not quite understanding the word’s meaning. And fair enough. It’s not every day you meet a woman who has a biological child carried through gestation by a surrogate mother and handed to her at birth. But then maybe you have never met someone who couldn’t carry their own baby and had the determination, drive and imagination to make the dream of having a biological child through surrogacy a reality. Or maybe you are that person too, with those same dreams? Continue reading “Surrogacy: going public…” »